The best alternative to OkCupid
If you're looking for a new dating app, the best place to start is with Firefly.
Understanding why
Why are people looking for alternatives to OkCupid?
Many people are searching for alternatives to OkCupid due to frustrations with its shift towards a swipe-based model and increased paywalls. Features like detailed match percentages, personality quizzes, and grid-style browsing - once core to OkCupid's appeal - are now missing. This has left users feeling disconnected from the thoughtful matchmaking they originally loved. As a result, they're exploring dating platforms that prioritize compatibility, transparency, and community-driven connections.
What makes us different
Finding a OkCupid alternative in 2025
As the first and only app that it built to listen and shaped by our community, we knew that people were looking for alternatives to OkCupid. Whether you miss the old features of OkCupid, or are just tired of being on apps that don't care about your success, join Firefly to find better matches, down to a science.
Tabitha
34 • California
97% Match
Mica
23 • New York
92% Match
Steph
28 • England
95% Match
Sasha
41 • Texas
87% Match
Discover more matches, faster
Say goodbye to limited swipes! Firefly uses a grid view that you can filter and sort however you like, so you never have to worry about missing out on potential matches.
Improve your matches with our quizzes
Quizzes are a fun way to determine your compatibility with a potential match. Answer quizzes and rate how important the quiz is to you. The more quizzes you answer, the better your matches will be.
LeahAbout me
My name's Leah! I'm a proud dog mom, an avid gym-goer, and, if you ask my friends, a bit quirky at times.
A list of items I couldn't live without are...
- My phone - it's my connection to the world!
- Coffee - I need it to jumpstart my day.
- My Kindle - I love getting lost in a good book.
In a relationship, I am looking for...
Someone who loves adventure, enjoys a quiet night in, and has a great sense of humor.
Connect with the person behind the screen
Tired of not being able to express your true self? Use our long-form profile questions to write as much as you want to share who you really are.